In a candid conversation on the latest episode of “Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace?” on Max, legendary singer-songwriter Barry Manilow opened up about why he chose to keep his sexuality private for decades. Reflecting on his decision to come out as gay in 2017 at the age of 73, Manilow shared that the societal landscape of the ’70s and concerns about his career played a significant role in maintaining his silence.
During the interview with veteran journalist Chris Wallace, Manilow explained, “In the ’70s, you didn’t [come out]. It wasn’t the same as it is today. Now being gay is no big deal. But back in the ’70s, it would have killed a career.” The iconic singer-songwriter expressed that the public was not ready for celebrities to come out during that era, and discussing personal matters was not something he felt comfortable doing.
Manilow emphasized his reluctance to delve into his personal life, stating, “Talking about my personal life was just kind of creepy to me. So I never did.” He clarified that the decision wasn’t about hiding who he was, stating, “Honestly, Chris, it was a non-event.” Manilow mentioned that when he and his now-husband Garry Kief came out, it was widely known that they were a couple.
Manilow and Kief, who became Manilow’s manager in 1978, got married in 2014. The renowned singer credited Kief with playing a crucial role in his life, particularly during the intense periods of his career. “Garry actually kind of saved my life because as my career exploded, as I said, it was crazy, and going back to an empty hotel room, you could get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night,” Manilow shared.
The interview sheds light on the complex decisions artists faced in navigating their personal lives and public personas during different eras, offering a unique perspective on Manilow’s journey and the evolving acceptance of LGBTQ+ identities in the entertainment industry.